Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Another twist and turn in the rollercoaster ride that is our life!

Well, it has only been a few weeks since my last post but with as much stuff as has happened to us you would think it had been a few years. Starting from my last post, the boys we're going to be staying with Grandma Jan for a week so that I could come back home and get some spring cleaning done and other misc things. I had come back home with so many things to do and then the first day back Brian calls from work saying that he needed to go to Urgent Care due to being sick for almost 3 weeks and it not getting any better. So that day I went with him and they gave him an antibiotic and so instead of being childless for a few days I was taking care of my big kid. He stayed home from work the next day also and finally the antibiotic seemed to be working. Having lived in the Grand Haven/Spring Lake area for over 6 months now we were starting to get the itch to find a house and really settle in so we figured with the boys gone for the week it would be a good time to meet with a realtor and see what was out there. We looked at quite a few houses and were getting excited about finding the right place for us here in our new area, and thats when everything changed. Brian came home the next day and had to tell me that he had lost his job, the one we had moved so many miles for, the one that we had left friends and family and of course our only source of income since I stay home with the kids. It was a very devasting blow, we were not sure what to do next. We did not blame God but we did question why he would bring us over here just for this to happen. Well, fortunately the boys were away so we were able to have a few days to process what had happened and to start a game plan for what to do next. Brian started sending out resumes all over this area and in other areas of the state, he also decided to contact his previous employer in Midland that he left to come here. We had all but decided we would do our best to figure out something over here since we were in a lease still at our apartment until Brian received an email back from his old employer saying if he wanted his job back he had it! Well, that definitely threw us for a loop as we were sure we were supposed to stay here so we decided to give it a week and see if we heard anything from over here. Well, we did not hear anything from over here and we knew we could not survive very long on unemployment so we thought we would look into housing options over there and see what would happen. Well, to cut down on the long story, we took a trip over there last week and on our eighth anniversary, April 22nd, we found a house to buy in Midland only about 5 minutes from Brian's work and 15 minutes from my parents house and 30 from my mother in laws house. We put in an offer and by the end of the week it had been accepted and we had gotten financing figured out as well. We knew that the way things were working out so well that this must be the direction God wanted us to go. He has really been in all the details. Again, we are still struggling with the why of the move over here to begin with but we have made some great friends here and I know we will eventually see. So, as of now, Brian is back to work in Midland and myself and the boys are still here in Grand Haven for 2 weeks so Jensen can finish up school. We close on the house in Midland on or before May 30th and get to move again. We would appreciate your prayers as we still have things to be worked out but we are excited to see what God has in store for us back home :)


Here are some pictures of the house:


It is 3 bedrooms, 1 bath, large partially finished basement.

Front of the house



Kitchen

Living Room





Bathroom


One section of the basement which will be a play room for the boys

Back view of house and deck

Fenced in backyard

6 comments:

Stephen and Michelle said...

WOW!!! I had no idea...that is so much to have happen in one week. What a blessing to have the kids away with their grandma!!

It is amazing to see how God is working everything out for you...it looks like such a beautiful home and location, and I am sure it will be nice to be close to family again.

I pray that the next month goes smoothly for you!!
Michelle

Mary Sue said...
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Mary Sue said...

Nice house! What a roller coaster it was to get to it though!

Praying for you and the family,
Mary Sue

Anonymous said...

Looks wonderful! And it seems it's sourrounded by trees, like in middle of forrest. Patience is always blessed, I have been trough some really "eternal" home deals as Vancouver realtor so your rollercoaster wasn't one of the worst. Wish you the best in new house...

Anonymous said...

What a whirlwhind month; I'm glad it has worked out for you guys, even if the journey was a bit harrowing.

The house looks great! Claudia and I are also buying a place, with a May 30 closing date. Check out the pics on our blog:

http://keithandclaudiasfamily.blogspot.com/2008/04/our-new-home.html

Anonymous said...

Ha! I just saw your comment after I linked to my post.

Inspection was yesterday, and the seller has some work to do (or at least to pay for). For now, it is paperwork, lawyers, and banks (oh, my!), as I'm sure you know as well.

I love being able to see pics of your family through the blog. Glad to know you're keeping an eye on ours as well.